Uburyo abigeme bomenya ko abasore bavugishije ukuri mukubasaba urukundo

Yanditswe na Joel Sengurebe
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Birashika ko umuntu agusaba urukundo maze ukarumwima kuko atarukundo umufiseko, canke ukarumuha kubera impuhwe umufitiye, ndetse ari naho ukunda umuntu kubera ibintu wamubonyeko, ukamukunda ku bw’amafaranga wamubonanye, ariko mu vy’ukuri atarukundo umukunda.
Mu bihugu vyateye imbere ho bisigaye ari ikibazo gikomeye, kuko umuntu arashobora kukwikundishako mu ganshinga urugo ariko atarukundo na ruto agufitiye, ariko inyuma yaho, agatangura kurondera imvo zotuma mwahukana hanyuma intumbero yiwe (...)

Birashika ko umuntu agusaba urukundo maze ukarumwima kuko atarukundo umufiseko, canke ukarumuha kubera impuhwe umufitiye, ndetse ari naho ukunda umuntu kubera ibintu wamubonyeko, ukamukunda ku bw’amafaranga wamubonanye, ariko mu vy’ukuri atarukundo umukunda.

Mu bihugu vyateye imbere ho bisigaye ari ikibazo gikomeye, kuko umuntu arashobora kukwikundishako mu ganshinga urugo ariko atarukundo na ruto agufitiye, ariko inyuma yaho, agatangura kurondera imvo zotuma mwahukana hanyuma intumbero yiwe akayishikako agafata amwe mu matungo yiwawe agatwara ayahawe n’amategeko.
Hari ibintu umuntu yoshingirako kugira urabe umenye ko vyukuri ukwiyumvira ko mwohebana ndetse ukabishira no mu ngiro vyoba vyavuye ku mutima, haba mu Burundi canke mu bindi bihugu :

1.Uburyo abikubarira ni kimwe mu vyokwereka ko avugisha ukuri.

Ntiwopfa kumenya ko umuntu akubwiza ukuri ariko raba icubahiro, ukwiyorosha n’agaciro abivuganye. Niyaba agusavye urukundo yiyemeye cane, asa nk’uwugutegeka, burya aba akubeshe.

2.Ahantu abikubwiriye hashobora kukwereka ko urukundo arukeneye vyukuri.

Nk’iyo agusavye urukundo, akarugusaba imbere y’abantu benshi bakuzi kandi nawe bamuzi hari amanota aba yongeyeho kurusha aho yogusabiye urukundo mu mpisho. Kandi, hari ahantu haba hadakwiriye kuvugirwa amagambo meza y’urukundo.

3.Igihe abikubariye, kuko hari igihe kitaba arico gusaba urukundo.

Akarorero, nk’igihe agusanze uri kukigandandaro c’umuntu wawe canke c’uwundi akahagusabira urukundo, urumva ko ariko arakugushinyagurira. Canke akagusaba urukundo mu gihe yaborewe, urumva ko akubwira ibadatonze k’umurongo kandi bidahwanye.Muri icogihe, avuga ibisunitswe n’impwemu vyose kandi bitaroranye
Ikintu cose kigira umwanya waco niyo mpamvu n’umuntu ugusaba urukundo adategerezwa kugufatira aho akuboneye hose.

4.Imvo yamuteye kugusaba urukundo ningombwa kuyimubaza

Ukamubaza ica mutumye agana wewe n’impamvu yumva yipfuza ko urukundo rwanyu rwobaho. Ukamenya nimba ari urukundo rwa kanya gato canke urukundo rugiye kubandanya gushika urupfu rubatandukanye. Mu gihe wumvise ko impavu zo mutumye aza kuri wewe zidafadika, vyiza womusezera ukamubwiza ukuri ko bidashoboka.


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Andika hanoj nagomb mbabaz none wo menya gute ko umukobwa agukunda vyukuri?

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Pontien 19-08-2017 à 09:06

murakoz Kuri Izo Mpanuro Muduhaye!

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IRISHURA Léo Bely Igiraneza 17-08-2017 à 20:00

IVYO NIVYO WOKORA.URITONDA UKABIMUSAB NAWENYENE ARAHANT YOROHEWE.

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NI MUNSIGURIRE UBWOKO BWAYA MASHURWE "ORANGE,IROZA,ROUGE,UBURURU

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YVES 16-08-2017 à 13:53

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Innocent Ntakarutimana Muco 6-08-2017 à 13:02

ego cane ivyo ni bimwe muri vyinshi borabirako ko umuhungu abavugishje abakunda vyukuri.nne mugihe har acpfa kwemera urukundo badatohje kw’ivy muvuze vyogenda gte kugra abmenye rumaze gtangura?

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Irankunda 4-08-2017 à 10:09

abigeme Nibumve Kabisa!

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ezechiel ndayisAba 20-07-2017 à 23:54

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MANIRAKIZA 10-06-2017 à 22:10

NONE KUBUBATSE WOMENYA GUTE KO UMUGORE AGUKUNDA?MBE KUMUGABO HO?

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pamphyle 28-05-2017 à 12:47

none nkumukobwa muhuriye ahantu akarorero kurugendo nkomugihe ugombe ufate bus utamubwiye impamvu umukundiye mbega urworukundo ruzorama

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Petronie kwizerimana 13-05-2017 à 15:05

non ntashobora kugusab urukund kand avyiyumvamw naw uvyiyumvamw bigahinduka munyuma?nikuki non hagera igihe mukikuranamw burundu vyukur mub mwarakundana?

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jean claude irakoze 12-05-2017 à 16:41

ndabshimiy kunkuru mudushkiriza zinyura bweng nn niryari umuntu agra ivyipfuzo bidafse?

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Fabie Ntirampeba 5-05-2017 à 23:25

None womenya gute ko umukobwa agukunda vyukuri??

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Ndayishimiye.Jérémie 26-04-2017 à 19:55

Jewendakundamugabo.Ntamukozeko.Abona.Umengondamwanka.Mwofashiki?

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IVYO NIVYO PE MURAKOZE CANE.

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IVYO NIVY VRAIMENT ARIKO HARI UWUKUBWIRA NGO ICO YAGUKUNDIY NICO BENSHI BATAZI MUGA NTAKIKUBWIRE HOHO WOVYIFATAMWO GUTE?

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