Uruhara rw’abagabo mu gukura neza kw’umwana akiri mu nda

Abagabo n’abakenyezi bafise uruhara ntangere mu kubaho kw’umwana akiri mu nda. Umwe muri abo bavyeyi babiri abuze, umwana akiri mu nda arabimenya, kandi ivyo aheza agaca abura.

Mu bushakashatsi bwakozwe ku bijanye n’irondoka rijanye n’amagara meza, abahinga bavuga ko umwana ariki mu nda atangura kwumva, kuva ku mezi ane. Ku mezi indwi hoho, yumva amajwi yose, ukungene nyina amukuyakuya, canke ivyo agerageza kumuvugisha haba mu ndirimbo canke mu majambo, eka mbere n’ibigumbagumba vyose nyina agira, yaba ivy’umunezero canke ivyerekana ko ababaye arabibamwo nawe.

Muri ubwo bushakashatsi, bakavuga ko ari ivyankenerwa kuvugisha umwana akiri mu nda kugira atangure kwimenyereza hakiri kare amajwi y’abamukikuje. Bikavurwa kandi ko iyo se w’umwana yama avugisha umwana ari mu nda, bituma umwana ari mu nda yumva ari mu mutekano ntangere, ivyo navyo bikamutuma akura yisanzuye.
Ikosa rikunze gukorwa, ni abantu bongorera mu kuvugisha umwana akiri mu nda, hakuvugana ijwi rirongoroye kugira umwana ashobore kwumva neza ico nyina canke se baba bashatse kuvuga.

Abahinga mw’irondoka rijanye n’amagara meza bavuga ko kuvuga bongorera umwana ari mu nda biri mu bishobora gutuma udutsi dutuma umwana yumva, dushobora kugabanya ubushobozi bwo kwumva.
No mu bindi vyirwa vyakozwe n’abashakashatsi nka René Almeling na Miranda Waggoner, bashigikira ko abagabo bafise uruhara ntangere mu gukura neza kw’abana bakiri mu nda. Iyo abakenyezi bashigikiwe n’abagabo babo mu gihe bibungenze, n’umwana arumva ko ari mu mutekano ntangere.

Abagabo bakaba bahamagariwe kwama hafi y’abakenyezi babo, na cane cane mu gihe bibungenze, ku neza y’umwana wabo.