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Abahungu n’abakobwa ntagaciro bagiha ubusugi
mardi 7 Nzero 2014
Aho hambere hahise imico y’igihugu c’Uburundi yarabuza umwigeme kuja kwubaka urwiwe atari isugi kuko yaba ateje urumbwa abavyeyi biwe n’umuryango. None n’ubu niko bikiri? Mbega umuhungu asanze ku munsi w’ubugeni umugore atari isugi abigenza gute ? Abahinga babivugako iki ?
Mu Burundi bwa nyaburunga carazira kikaziririzwa ko umwana w’umwigeme aja kwubaka urwiwe yarataye ubusugi. Uko imyaka yagiye iza niko uwo muco wagiye uratituka. Muri ino myaka, ubusugi ku mukobwa bisigaye bumeze nk’ibintu bisanzwe. Abakobwa bobo bivugira ko ata muhungu yoba akirondera isugi kuko ari bo nyene babubambura. Bavuga kandi ko isugi atariyo yubaka urugo, basigurako umukobwa ategerezwa kuja kwubaka azi ikimujanye : kuryohera umugabo. Kugira rero umugabo aryoherwe, umukobwa asabwa kumwereka ko hari ico azi ku bijanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina. Ivyo mukubigira, abakobwa bavuga ko umugore adashoboye kuryohera umugabo wiwe bizana ingaruka mbi mu rugo cane cane kuja kurondera abandi bagore canke abakobwa babizi kumurusha.
Ku ruhande rw’abahungu, abatari bake bibwira ko kugira umukobwa amwereko ko amukunda bagira imibonano mpuzabitsina, ivyo rero bigahakwa kumera nk’umugenzo ku bahungu. Mu gihe rero umuhungu atanguye gukundana akiri muto akaba afise ako gatima, agera kurongora amaze guhura n’abakobwa benshi yaciye ince. Ivyo rero bituma iyo hageze kurongora umuhungu ataba acitayeho kurondera umukobwa w’isugi, kuko nawe azi benshi yoba yarabwambuye kandi bazorongorwa n’abandi.
Kuri izo mpande zose, umuntu yokwibaza kuki umukobwa atokwankira umuhungu kugira ubwo busambanyi kandi haraho biba biboneka neza ko ata bugeni bazogirana? Akarorero, n’aho twama twumva hirya no hino abana bigana bateranye inda, none umwana w’umukobwa yiga mu mwaka w’indwi yokwemera gute kuryamana n’umuhungu bigana yitwaza ko aronse umugabo ? Mbega umuhungu abigira yibaza ko uwo ari we bazokwubakana ?
Genevieve de Fontenay, umuhinga mu bijanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina, avuga ati : "Iciyumviro co kugumana ubusugi gushika ku munsi w’ubugeni si ciza, ahubwo umukobwa yokwitegura kare kugira na ntaryo amenyeko igitsina gore ciwe gikomeye." Aca abaza ati : "Mbega umukobwa akuze yogumana ubusugi bwiwe hama agiye kurongorwa agasanga ntakomeye yobigenza gute ?"
- Genevieve de Fontenay, umuhinga mu bijanye n’imibonano mpuzabitsina
Cherif Nkeshimana
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